Teacher: Christopher Ash

Weekly Conversations

When a specific course is not happening, I open up our Zoom venue each Sunday at 4:00 PM, Sydney-Melbourne time, for conversation. These weekly Kalyanamitta meetings are open to those who have done my courses or have made an arrangement with me personally.

If there is a topic designated for the Sunday meeting, it will be listed below in the events.

Courses

Any courses will be on Zoom; and all are held on Sundays at 4:00 PM, Sydney-Melbourne time. In between courses we enjoy our regular conversations.

Individual Sessions with Christopher

If you have any questions about the approach to the Dharma, or feel in need of support, I’m available for one-on-one sessions.

In case there is extra content, click on the heading-link for the particular course.

  • Sun
    31
    Oct
    2021
    4:00 pmZoom

    Four weekly sessions, beginning Sunday 31 October, 2021. These sessions will be presented by Christopher, and will follow the course of Rob Parker's presentations for the Focusing Institute. The topics broadly traverse the landscape of Gendlin's A Process Model.

    This course was devised primarily to support members of our group who are doing Rob's course, but it is open to any of our Kalaynamitta group. There will be a follow-up session, soon after, at a time to be announced.

    The topics for the Four-week course are:

    Week 1)  The need for new concepts in our understanding of the human in the world. Introduction to some Philosophy of the Implicit core concepts, which play a part in our work in the Kalyanamitta group.

    Week 2)  Some concepts which help to practically ground our understanding of our experience of feeling, perception, and consciousness - namely, versioning and re-recognizing.

    Week 3)  How the previous week's concepts help us freshly understand: verbal consciousness, our sense of self, and social reality.

    Week 4)  In this session we will see how all these processes show us how it is that we can Focus (in Gendlin's sense of that word).

    Cost: There is no fee. The course is offered on a 'dana' (donation) basis, as per Buddhist custom. (I, Christopher, will explicitly request a donation for our special guest in the follow-up event.)

  • Sun
    19
    Dec
    2021
    4:00 pmZoom

    Today's topic is: 'Person,' it is said. 'Person.' What kind of experience is it, to be a person?

  • Sun
    09
    Jan
    2022
    8:00 amZoom

    We resume our study of Gendlin's Philosophy of the Implicit this week.

  • Sun
    09
    Jan
    2022
    4:00 pmOnline

    We begin our 2022's conversations, on this day. The topic today  is 'Human Nature.'

  • Sun
    23
    Jan
    2022
    8:00 amZoom

    Reading Gendlin's Experiencing and the Creation of Meaning.

  • Sun
    23
    Jan
    2022
    4:00 pmZoom

    Dates: 23 January to March 13, 2022

    The course is a course on how felt meaning functions in awareness, and how to harness this natural functioning in our meditation and mindfulness practice. It's also a course on the heart of 'awareness.' It's open to people who have some experience with meditation and or Gendlin's Focusing process. Contact Christopher at <christopher at wholebodymindfulness dot com>

    Felt meaning is another way to say 'felt sense.' The body always 'senses' its situation, and bringing our attention to this bodily felt meaningfulness brings us into a  natural order, dispelling the divisiveness of having only social meanings to rely upon. This process of pausing and bringing into view the 'whole' of our situation, such that the whole of us carries forward, this is called 'Focusing.' (On the analogy of bringing something into focus.)

    This course will qualify participants for a Level 1 Focusing certificate recognisable by other qualified Focusing trainers. For this purpose you can take the list on this page as representing the core content/skills which you will learn in this course.

    In the course, these skills will be presented in relation to and via: the four traditional areas of Buddhist mindfulness and sitting meditation. The four traditional areas of mindfulness involve direct awareness of: our physical body; its feeling-tones; 'cheart-mind' (body-environment interaction); and concept for conducting of our experiencing in the spirit of freedom.

    In the first session (23rd January), we will: Experience ‘Clearing a Space’ and explore the nature and qualities of ‘Experiential Space’ as a foundation for developing and fully realizing 'heart-mind.'

    The course will run from 23 January to March 13. (That's seven weeks, but with an extra session for checking in at the end of the seven weeks.)

    Cost: There is no fee. The course is offered on a 'dana' (donation) basis, as per Buddhist custom.

  • Sun
    30
    Jan
    2022
    4:00 pmZoom

    In the second week of the course Felt Meaning in Mindfulness Meditation we'll experience how felt meaning functions, and practise inviting a 'felt sense' to form. This will give a foundation (to use in our succeeding sessions) for directly refering to felt meaning in support of the development of wisdom and compassion. In early Buddhist teachings this development is called 'development of the heart-mind' ("citta-bhavana").

    Eugene Gendlin coined the now-popular (and often misused) term 'felt sense' in the period of the turn from the 1950s to the 1960s. We'll distinguish a 'felt sense' as Gendlin meant it from other conscious experiences found in meditation.

  • Sun
    06
    Feb
    2022
    8:00 amZoom

    Our fortnightly Philosophy of the Implicit group will continue our reading of Experiencing and the Creation of Meaning

  • Sun
    20
    Feb
    2022
    4:00 pmOnline

    This session we'll practice basis skills in Focusing-style listening, the effortless listening style. It's primarily a practice of co-Presence.

  • Mon
    21
    Mar
    2022
    4:00 pmZoom

    Today we will activate our body's felt meaning in an inquiry into how the phrase 'I know' works in us. The session will invite an unfolding, experiential inquiry into the levels of experience we call 'mind.' All welcome, regardless of previous experience (or lack of it) with our particular approach. Language will be kept as experience-near as possible.

  • Sun
    27
    Mar
    2022
    4:00 pmZoom

    Thoughts can bring fragmentation of the whole, but those thoughts are still connected to the whole. How this relates to difficult personality conditions? How to manage our own trauma states? How to engage with another in these fragmented states?

  • Sun
    03
    Apr
    2022
    4:00 pmZoom

    This course is a nine-week Mindful Inquiry (Dhammavicaya) course, starting on the 3rd April 2022. Each session will be held at 4:00 PM Sydney time. The experiential component of this course will be based on Gendlin's Thinking at the Edge (TAE) process.

    The TAE skills-learning will be done in the context of formulating for ourselves a vision of the whole of the Early Buddhist teachings. Over the weeks, we will, each in our own way, articulate our understanding of the early Buddhist teachings, those presented in the Pāli Nikāyas. This course is open to people who have no idea at all of the Buddhist teachings, because the topics are (despite the technical language displayed below) sufficiently about human experiencing to be relevant to newcomers.

    The topics planned are:

    Dependent Arising 1 (Bodily Implying & Occurring)
    Mindfulness (Re-recognizing & Versioning as Core Processes of Experiencing)
    Kamma 1 (Intending & Thinking; Belief & Experience)
    Brahmaviharas (Kindness, Compassion, Appreciative Joy, and Equinimity)
    Khandhas & Dukkha (Five Sentient Processes as Personality Processes) 
    Dependent Arising 2  (Personality's Recycling)
    Anatta (the Language of Not-Self & of Person)
    Nibbana (Letting Be & Liberation)

    Cost: Dana, as per Buddhist custom.

    Eligibility: Anyone in our Kalyanamitta group can come. Others can apply to me for inclusion - christopherATwholebodymindfulnessDOTcom. If you have done the 7-week Focusing course, that helps; but it isn't necessary. In fact, I believe that a newcomer can gain Focusing proficiency during this nine weeks.

    This course will make a great preparation for our study of Sue Hamilton-Blyth's insightful vision of early Buddhism, which follows on in the next course.

  • Sun
    03
    Apr
    2022
    4:00 pmZoom

    We will begin this course with an inquiry into 'occurring into implying.' Whatever we think, say, or do is an occurring into our implying forward. This is a big part of how karma works: How the intentional present 'feeds' the 'implicit' present - which includes changing all he past which informs the present.

  • Sun
    10
    Apr
    2022
    4:00 pmZoom

    Last week we explored 'implying,' 'occurring into implying,' and 'kamma' (or, in Sanskrit: karma). This week we'll explore some more about karma, in the context of Mindfulness; that is, in the context of 're-recognizing' & 'versioning' as Core Processes of Experiencing. Bring a pen and paper for one of the exercises we will do.

  • Sun
    08
    May
    2022
    4:00 pmZoom

    Today we'll write a paragraph expanding on what we've done in previous weeks. We'll playfully string unusual sentences together from our last meeting, and notice how they interact and bring new concepts to light. And we'll look for instances in our life, bringing them into contact with our previous felt exploration to see how they contribute to the exploration.

  • Sun
    15
    May
    2022
    4:00 pmZoom

    More detail to come. The TAE step works further with instances of karma in our life. It reads as follows: "Step 7: Allow the facets to contribute detailed structure."

  • Sun
    22
    May
    2022
    4:00 pmZoom

    More details to come. I love this step. It involves looking at one instance of the working of karma in your life through the lens of another instance. It can bring to light fresh understanding, and new ways of speaking about our instances. Formally it is: "Step 8: Cross the facets."

  • Sun
    29
    May
    2022
    4:00 pmZoom

    Today we do step 9 of the Thinking at the Edge process which we've been exploring. We're finishing the first module of TAE, the second part being theory building (which we don't have time for in this course). In a sense, though, you can see that you've been all along building your own understanding, and finding words for it, and making some proto-theory for yourself.

    Today we bring all that we've been doing in this course together, to enjoy where we've come to in this inquiry. We'll speak and write freely about how you see karma working in your life.

  • Sun
    05
    Jun
    2022
    4:00 pmZoom

    In the three-week break before our next course, the 'I' of the Beholder course, we'll have 'conversations' about the inner life and it's transformation. Any topic is welcome. These weeks will be a time for sharing where we are deepening at our leading edge.

  • Sun
    19
    Jun
    2022
    4:00 pmZoom

    In this session, we'll explore the art of trusting body-environment interaction. We'll explore releasing our grip on the senses during meditation; enjoying the body-en space which is without the inside-outside division; and learning to allow  the 'orderly chaos' of the body's 'implying.'

  • Sun
    28
    Aug
    2022
    4:00 pmZoom

    Starting 28 August, this is an 8-week series exploring a coherent model of the Early Buddhist teachings. I intend it as a kind of 'Buddhadharma for the Confused' course, suitable for meditators of all levels. It finishes with an extra Sunday session on 23 October.

    This is a course for moderns who are puzzled by the inconsistencies in the Buddhadharma. Buddhism provokes in readers a lot of puzzling ideas, such as: Does Buddhism really teach that the deepest truth is ‘nothingness’? Is there really no self? Am I really just the impersonal workings of mere conditions? Why would I give up my selfishness? Did the Buddha really mean that consciousness has to end? Why would I want that?! How does karma work? Do I have to believe in karma, to become enlightened? What is enlightenment, anyway? If freedom is to ‘go beyond’ right and wrong, doesn’t that leave us rudderless in daily society?

    This course is intended as a course which will show how the Early Buddhist vision as a whole makes sense of personal experiencing – how being intimate with your experience as a precise identity, the particular person you are on planet Earth in these extraordinary times, can be the path of spiritual freedom, of ultimate freedom while living. We can appeal to our first-person experience to verify the Early Buddhist vision, and from here we can sort out which of those questions (if any) are useful for a fulfilling life, and which are irrelevant. Which can never be definitively answered, and which can be settled in one's own bodily experience. And, which need re-framing?

    As always, in my courses, bodily-felt experience is the touchstone. I will invite participants to consult their bodily-felt meaning of the Buddhist concepts, and to experience the vision in terms of a 'process orientation.' If you have some 'Focusing' experience, this course is made for you. If not, you will learn, as we proceed, to use your body's 'felt sense' for insight.

    I am basing the course on Sue Hamilton-Blyth's book Early Buddhism: A New Approach - 'I' of the Beholder. Participants do not need to have read the book, however. I'll send out excerpts from the chapters, beforehand, to facilitate the conversation.  (However, I do recommend that you read this book, when you get the chance, if you want to make sense of Early Buddhism.)

    We will not be slavishly adopting Dr. Hamilton-Blyth's conclusions, however. Instead, we will seek, where possible, to confirm them in our experience (or disconfirm them) - and also to carry her approach forward to its next steps, wherever possible. I recommend that our individual purpose be to generate out of this content a coherent vision of the path of human transformation that contributes to our happiness and the happiness of others.

    Each week there'll be a half-hour presentation on a chapter of Sue Hamilton-Blyth's book Early Buddhism: A New Approach - 'I' of the Beholder. In support of participants' experiential learning, each week there will be awareness experiments to do as we go about our daily lives.

    FOR THE FIRST WEEK, the conversation is about: Chapter Three: The Focus on Experience. Each week, after the short introductory talk, then we'll have a conversation generated by the content as presented that week.

    The list of the weeks' topics follows the names of the chapters, in this order:
    Week 1 - Chapter Three: The Focus on Experience.
    Week 2 - Chapter One: Setting the Scene: The 'not-self' character of experience; and, the five 'aggregates' (the five primary sentient processes of body, feeling-tones or sensations, perceptions, intentionality, consciousness).
    Week 3 - Chapter Two: The Indian Context.
    Week 4 - Chapter Four: The World of Experience.
    Week 5 - Chapter Five: The Experience of Subjectivity and Objectivity.
    Week 6 - Chapter Six: The Structure of Experience.
    Week 7 - Chapter Seven: The Limits of Experience.
    Week 8 - Chapter Eight: A World of Metaphor: Continuity, Death and Ethics.
    And, the ninth and closing session (23 October) will be focussed on the book's postscript: On What is a human being?

  • Sun
    04
    Sep
    2022
    4:00 amOnline

    Last week, we emphasized that if you place human experiencing, as well as a new language theory, at the centre of the model of Buddha's teachings, then a lot of the contradictions, and oddities of the Early Buddhist teachings dissolve, and a coherent model of human liberation emerges. This week, we begin to see in detail how the Buddha saw 'experiencing' and the 'knower' of experiencing.

    As always, in my courses, bodily-felt experience is the touchstone. I will invite participants to consult their bodily-felt meaning of the Buddhist concepts, and to experience the vision in terms of a 'process orientation.' If you have some 'Focusing' experience, this course is made for you. If not, you will learn, as we proceed, to use your body's 'felt sense' for insight.

    FOR THIS SECOND WEEK, the conversation is about: Chapter One: The 'not-self' character of experience; and, the five 'skandhas' (or five primary sentient processes). After the short introductory talk, then we'll have a conversation generated by the content as presented.

    The list of each weeks' topics:
    Week 1 - Chapter Three: The Focus on Experience.
    Week 2 - Chapter One: Setting the Scene: The 'not-self' character of experience; and, the five 'aggregates' (the five primary sentient processes of body, feeling-tones or sensations, perceptions, intentionality, consciousness).
    Week 3 - Chapter Two: The Indian Context.
    Week 4 - Chapter Four: The World of Experience.
    Week 5 - Chapter Five: The Experience of Subjectivity and Objectivity.
    Week 6 - Chapter Six: The Structure of Experience.
    Week 7 - Chapter Seven: The Limits of Experience.
    Week 8 - Chapter Eight: A World of Metaphor: Continuity, Death and Ethics.
    And, the ninth and closing session (23 October) will be focussed on the book's postscript: On What is a human being?

  • Sun
    11
    Sep
    2022
    4:00 amOnline

    This week: Week 3 - Chapter Two from Sue Hamilton-Blyth's I of the Beholder: The Indian Context.

    Last week, we looked at two main things about human experiencing as presented by the early Buddhist literature. We talked about how the Buddha saw 'experiencing' in terms of five particular sentient processes (that is, the khandhas/skandhas - body, feeling-tones or sensations, perceptions, mental tendencies, and conscoiusness). It is these we need to understand to be free. We also looked at how he addressed a particular obstacle to meditating on the skandhas - that is, views to do with the 'self' or the 'knower' of experiencing.

    FOR THE THIRD WEEK, the conversation is about: Chapter Two: The Indian Context. I will give introductory talk in which I will go more deeply into the historical and cultural material (a little of which I introduced last week). In particular look at the implications of the cultural context of the Buddha's time, for how we understand his teaching of 'the Middle Way.' In particular we will think together about the difficulties of relating teachings which arose from that cultural context to our modern Western situation.

    Future weeks' topics:
    Week 4 - Chapter Four: The World of Experience.
    Week 5 - Chapter Five: The Experience of Subjectivity and Objectivity.
    Week 6 - Chapter Six: The Structure of Experience.
    Week 7 - Chapter Seven: The Limits of Experience.
    Week 8 - Chapter Eight: A World of Metaphor: Continuity, Death and Ethics.
    And, the ninth and closing session (23 October) will be focussed on the book's postscript: On What is a human being?

    As always, in my courses, bodily-felt experience is the touchstone. I will invite participants to consult their bodily-felt meaning of the Buddhist concepts, and to experience the vision in terms of a 'process orientation.' If you have some 'Focusing' experience, this course is made for you. If not, you will learn, as we proceed, to use your body's 'felt sense' for insight.

    Reference: Sue Hamilton-Blyth, Early Buddhism - A New Approach: the I of the Beholder.

    • Christopher Ash, 8 September 2022.
  • Sun
    18
    Sep
    2022
    4:00 pmOnline

    This week: Week 4 - Chapter Four: The World of Experience, from Sue Hamilton-Blyth's I of the Beholder.

    FOR THE FOURTH WEEK, the conversation is about: Chapter Four: The World of Experience. This is a rarely talked-about topic amongst Early Buddhist meditation groups. I’ve mentioned it on many occasions, that is: that your sentient processes are your ‘lived world,’ and that whatever reality is (more on that later), it is mediated by your ‘sentience.’ So, you can’t get outside of that sensitivity to know what is ‘real’ from some ‘objective’ position. What does the Buddha teach about our ‘world within the world’? How important is this point for conducting our life?

    I regret that I’m skipping Chapter 3: the Focus on Experience, because of time constraints, but will includes its central points in my presentation of The World of Experience.

    Future weeks' topics:
    Week 5 - Chapter Five: The Experience of Subjectivity and Objectivity.
    Week 6 - Chapter Six: The Structure of Experience.
    Week 7 - Chapter Seven: The Limits of Experience.
    Week 8 - Chapter Eight: A World of Metaphor: Continuity, Death and Ethics.
    And, the ninth and closing session (23 October) will be focussed on the book's postscript: On What is a human being?

    As always, in my courses, bodily-felt experience is the touchstone. I will invite participants to consult their bodily-felt meaning of the Buddhist concepts, and to experience the vision in terms of a 'process orientation.' If you have some 'Focusing' experience, this course is made for you. If not, you will learn, as we proceed, to use your body's 'felt sense' for insight.

    Reference: Sue Hamilton-Blyth, Early Buddhism - A New Approach: the I of the Beholder.

    • Christopher Ash, 11 September 2022.

     

  • Sun
    25
    Sep
    2022
    4:00 amOnline

    This week: Week 5 - Chapter Five: The Experience of Subjectivity and Objectivity, from Sue Hamilton-Blyth's I of the Beholder.

    FOR THE FIFTH WEEK, the topic includes that: your sentient processes, your ‘lived world' (loka), includes your co-generated process of 'subjectivity and objectivity.’  Sue Hamilton-Blyth writes, “In order for something to be known at all, it is necessary for there to be a subject who is objectifying it. And conversely, objectivity, which one may also understand in terms of all of what is known, is itself entirely dependent on the functioning of a subject.” (Beholder, p.127)

    Future weeks' topics:
    Week 6 - Chapter Six: The Structure of Experience.
    Week 7 - Chapter Seven: The Limits of Experience.
    Week 8 - Chapter Eight: A World of Metaphor: Continuity, Death and Ethics.
    And, the ninth and closing session (23 October) will be focussed on the book's postscript: On What is a human being?

    As always, in my courses, bodily-felt experience is the touchstone. I will invite participants to consult their bodily-felt meaning of the Buddhist concepts, and to experience the vision in terms of a 'process orientation.' If you have some 'Focusing' experience, this course is made for you. If not, you will learn, as we proceed, to use your body's 'felt sense' for insight.

    Reference: Sue Hamilton-Blyth, Early Buddhism - A New Approach: the I of the Beholder. (2000) Curzon.

    Christopher Ash, 18 September 2022.

  • Sun
    16
    Oct
    2022
    4:00 amOnline

    FOR THE EIGHTH WEEK, the topic is Chapter Eight: A World of Metaphor: Continuity, Death and Ethics, from Sue Hamilton-Blyth's I of the Beholder. In Week 7 we examined The Limits of Experience.  Buddha would suggest that the recognition of limit of experience sets us free. We have a deeper freedom once we realize the limits of perception and language.  What I will emphasize this week is that the metaphoric nature of language (and our appropriate language practice - with yonisomanasikara - makes us better able to work with the freedom we access at the limit of experience.

    "Freedom of choice of action is what makes it possible for the Buddha to state that one is able to improve and change one’s experience. His teachings advocate coming to terms with wherever one is, understanding the history of all of the factors involved in that situation, and accepting that any improvement is entirely in one’s own hands."- from Chapter 8 of Sue Hamilton-Blyth's Early Buddhism: A New Approach (Routledge Critical Studies in Buddhism) (p. 215).

    Future weeks' topics:
    The ninth and closing session (23 October) will be focussed on the book's postscript: On What is a human being?

    As always, in my courses, bodily-felt experience is the touchstone. I will invite participants to consult their bodily-felt meaning of the Buddhist concepts, and to experience the vision in terms of a 'process orientation.' If you have some 'Focusing' experience, this course is made for you. If not, you will learn, as we proceed, to use your body's 'felt sense' for insight.

    Reference: Sue Hamilton-Blyth, Early Buddhism - A New Approach: the I of the Beholder. (2000) Curzon.

    Christopher Ash, 30 September 2022.

  • Sun
    23
    Oct
    2022
    Online

    Nature includes the human, humans are nature. What does this mean for community, in body, speech and mind?

    This week, the ninth and closing session (23 October) we will focus on the postscript in Sue Hamilton-Blyth's I of the Beholder: What is a human being?

    As always, in my courses, bodily-felt experience is the touchstone. I will invite participants to consult their bodily-felt meaning of the Buddhist concepts, and to experience the vision in terms of a 'process orientation.' If you have some 'Focusing' experience, this course is made for you. If not, you will learn, as we proceed, to use your body's 'felt sense' for insight.

    Reference: Sue Hamilton-Blyth, Early Buddhism - A New Approach: the I of the Beholder. (2000) Curzon.

    Christopher Ash, 17 October 2022.

  • Sun
    30
    Oct
    2022
    4:00 pmOnline

    A Vipassana of Vision course. 30 October, 2020 - December 11, 2020 (Sydney Daylight Savings time).

    In Week 1, we'll explore using Douglas Harding's 'Pointing Exercise.'

    I'll remind participants how to relate words to experience using Focusing, such that 'bodily-felt meaning' guides the exploration.

    This is a practical six-week course exploring Douglas Harding’s Headless Way vision, alongside a study of the Kālakarāma Sutta and the Heart Sutra, and with reference to the writings of experiential philosophy of Eugene T. Gendlin.

    The course is six weeks, in seven Sunday sessions start to finish.

    The course has a special entry requirement in that participants need to be acquainted with the work of the Kalyanamitta.online group. Exceptions are possible on application,

  • Sun
    30
    Oct
    2022
    4:00 pmOnline

    SPECIAL SCHEDULE IN COMING WEEKS
    For the next seven weeks, I’ll be teaching twice a week. I’ll be teaching the previously announced course on ‘Headlessness’ during the Sunday 4:00-5:30 session. This starts next Sunday, 30 October.

    In addition, beginning Wednesday 2nd November, I’ll be available online on Wednesday nights 7:00-8:30 for anybody at all who’d like to explore anything of their choosing (including about Headlessness, if you like). This will be a Kalyanamitta Conversations session. When the 'Headless' course finishes, we'll return to the usual Sunday schedule.

    GENERAL INVITATION TO THE COURSE
    The Sunday course (starting this coming Sunday 30 October) – ‘Headlessness’ – is an introduction to foundational awareness, emptiness and interdependence; but I won’t be concentrating on theory. It is a truly practical course and invites a commitment to combodiment - that is, to entering the radically intimate fact of living our embodied interdependence. We’ll use a number of 'practices of seeing' to taste the freedom of a non-concocted mind.

    (Combodiment, a concept from Focusing theorist and psychotherapist Akira Ikemi points to the lived body, a body which is, in an unmediated way, what it is because of - that is, 'with' - everything else.)

    This is a kind of ‘vipassana of vision’ – exploring vision as a Dharma door into the profound dimension. What makes this door of ‘vision’ a way in? As Buddhist writer Herbert Guenther says: "although we have seen that probing Being's mystery entails moving into rather "alien" terrain, paradoxically this very mystery is always "available" to us, operating in the all too familiar forms of our cognitive processes."

    Douglas Harding's "method"- commonly known as "Headlessness" - is a highly effective introduction to the boundless, luminous aspects of consciousness. That sounds desirable, right? But it's only half the story. The Heart Sutra says, "Form is Emptiness" and "Emptiness is Form." In other words, when "Headlessness" introduces you to primordial consciousness, it simultaneously introduces you to "combodiment." Emptiness is combodiment, combodiment is emptiness. This means a life of engagement with 'your world within the world' and 'the world.'

    My approach comes directly from forty-seven years of practice and study of Douglas Harding’s ‘method.’

    CONDITIONS OF PARTICIPATION: ATTENDANCE
    The topic is not a light one. So, I want a firmer commitment to attendance than I accepted in courses lately. A half-hearted commitment in this area can cause problems for your practice, rather than bring the freeing experience you are seeking.

    So, I’d like you to come for as many of the seven sessions as possible. If you are unable to attend at least six out of the seven sessions, then as a condition of registration, please write to me to work out how you might do the course under special conditions – perhaps checking in with me each week. I make this stipulation not just for the wellbeing of the group, but for your safety. It’s particularly the topic of emptiness which justifies the Buddha’s statement that his teaching is like a snake and needs skillful handling.

    THANKS FOR YOUR CONSIDERATION and remember that if you just want to have the less rigorous experience of a drop-in conversation, feel free to sign in on Wednesday night.

    Christopher.

  • Sun
    13
    Nov
    2022
    4:00 pmOnline

    Today we'll explore an instructions derived from the Bahiya Sutta: "In the seen, just the seen."

  • Wed
    16
    Nov
    2022
    7:00 pmOnline

    Because the Sunday group is taken up with the practice of intra-dependence which we call 'Headlessness,' we will have a standard Kalyanamitta Conversations group on Wednesday nights, until the Headlessness course is finished. Metting time 7:00 - 8:30 PM, Wednesdays, starting 2nd November. Questions about 'headlessness' welcome, too.

  • Sat
    21
    Jan
    2023
    4:00: pmNone
    2023 FIRST SEMESTER PROGRAM
    In the first half of 2023, I plan to teach A 'Dependent Arising Course,' for which we'll use the 'Wheel of Becoming' (Bhavacakka) and the Upanisa Sutta.  We'll study the unhealthy patterns of the 12-links, and also the Buddha's suggestions of a different, healthy dependent arising arising cycle.
    I want to also teach five-week course on 'Love in Buddhist Practice,' which I'll call Love and Awakening.
    For those who missed out on the 'Headless' course, and others who might want to repeat it, we'll have another, after these two courses.
    So, dates are. tentatively....
    1) Dependent Arising - unhealthy mind, and healthy mind versions. Starts, 5th February 2023, a five-week course.
    2) Love and Awakening. Starts 16th April, a four-week course.
    3) Headlessness. (Subtitled: Saving Bhavari and Yajnadatta). Starts  18th June 2023, a six-week course.
    I imagine these three courses as a integrated offering, but any of them can be taken singly.
    PUBLIC HOLIDAYS & MOTHERS DAY
    In 2023, there'll be no Kalyanamitta Group on:
    Easter Sunday - Sunday 9th April 2023
    Mothers' Day:  Sunday 14th May 2023
    Labour Day Weekend:  Sunday1st October 2023
    King's Birthday: At this stage it's not clear when the King's birthday holiday weekend will be. A NSW planning calendar suggests Monday 10 June, so probably no Kalyanamitta Group on 11 June 2023.
  • Sun
    22
    Jan
    2023
    4:00 pmOnline

    Our first conversation for the year. We'll have two open conversation meetings, and then we'll start the Dependent Arising Course. (See the preceding events entry, for a little information. More later.)

  • Sun
    05
    Feb
    2023
    4:00 pmOnline

    Starts, 5th February 2023, a five-week course. This will be a 'Dependent Arising Course,' using the 'Wheel of Becoming' (Bhavacakka) and the Upanisa Sutta.  We'll study the unhealthy patterns of the 12-links, and also the Buddha's suggestions of a different, healthy dependent arising cycle.

  • Sun
    12
    Mar
    2023
    4:00 pmOnline

    The Buddhadharma is organised around the principle that experiencing is central to the 'wakeful' life. ("Buddha" means 'awake.)

    All the familiar Buddhist terms - mindfulness, situational awareness (clear comprehension), meditation, grounded attention (yonisomanasikara), wisdom, and so on - are experiential terms. That is, they are about intimate knowledge of the life of the body.

    This 'knowledge' is, however, not intellectual. We know the body from within the body, the feeling-tones from within the feeling-tones, the perceptions from within the perceptions, the intentional (shaping) processes from within those processes, and consciousness from within consciousness.

    Felt meaning plays a fundamental role in this self-knowledge. How is this so?

  • Sun
    08
    Oct
    2023
    4:00 pmZoom

    Eight weeks of exploring Buddhism as a path of heart.

    This course began on 13 August, 2023 (Eastern Australia). Each week, there will be a short talk on the topic of the week, and then there will be group conversation about the practice of the topic. The topics will be sufficiently independent for you to attend all, or any number of the sessions that you wish. On the other hand, there's a design in the sequence which will benefit whoever attends all the sessions. In the weeks between 13 August and 1 October 2023. we will explore the following topics:

    13th August. Topic: Personal Experience.
    The centrality of the felt body in experiencing. The centrality of personal experience in Buddhadharma.

    20th August. Topic: Personal Experience. The experience of 'darkness'; the experience of the cessation of 'darkness.' Enlightenment.

    27th August. Topic: Concepts, Reality, and Experiencing. Care in conducting experience in accordance with Reality; and the meanings of 'Buddha.' Taking personal responsibility for knowing yourself and Reality.

    3rd September. Topic: Life’s implying and carrying forward; and our wanting. The practice of mindfulness in Buddhism. Five primary sentient (that is, felt) processes. Intimacy with sentient these processes as the Way of Mindfulness.
    How misperception of self brings blocked bodily-felt processes (particularly, greed, ill-will, and ignorance).

    10th September. Topic: Meaning-making. Meaning in nature, in human life, and in Buddhadharma.

    17th September. Topic: Cancelled due to illness.

    24th September. Topic: Care, altruism, compassion, responsiveness. The nature of being human, in Shakespeare’s mirror: ‘Most ignorant of what we are most assur’d – our glassy essence.’ To what kind of process does the word ‘mind’ refer? What does ‘heart-mind’ imply?

    1st October. Topic: The Meaning and Activity of Generosity

    8th October. Topic Dependent Arising, Experiencing, Heart, and Gratitude.

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    In the context of dependent arising, the Buddha said:
    "Practitioners, don't you only speak about that which is known, seen, and found by yourselves?"
    "That's so, Bhante"
    "Good, Practitioners! You have been guided by me, by means of this teaching [on dependent arising], which about this life. It is timeless; a 'come and see' teaching which is effective in leading to nibbana, and which should be felt individually by the wise."
    - The Buddha, from Mahātaṇhāsankhaya Sutta, Majjhima Nikaya I 265.

     

  • Sat
    21
    Oct
    2023
    1:00 pmZoom
    Saturday 21st October a number of focusers are coming together in the Kalyanamitta Zoom meeting room, for the kind of informal gathering known in the Focusing world as a 'Changes Group.' The meeting starts at: 1:00 PM, Sydney time. The group plans to meet monthly.  (There's no obligation to come every month, though.)​
    What happens in a Changes Group? We chat for a short time, then we break into pairs to do Focusing for an hour (twenty minutes to half an hour each). On Zoom, this means going into 'breakout rooms.' Then, after that, we return to the whole group, where we have a conversation about how our Focusing process went. We do that for another twenty minutes or so.
    All who are using Focusing are welcome, whether you're formally trained or not. One can learn Focusing many ways, without having had formal training in the six steps. And the changes group is one way of learning.
    (If you are a self-taught focuser, I'll figure out a way of introducing you to the nature of Focusing partnerships. For example, we could have a mini workshop for newcomers during the Focusing hour.)
  • Sun
    22
    Oct
    2023
    4:00 pmZoom

    On Sunday, if there are volunteers, we'll do the thing we are known for in our group - direct experiential learning through mindful, focusing-oriented, phenomenological inquiry. If there are no volunteers, I'll undertake my own short inquiry into some aspect of Dharma (which can be on a topic of your choosing), and a conversation can follow about the universal aspects of that process.

  • Sat
    20
    Jan
    2024
    4:00 pmNone

    Christopher is taking a break for two months. We'll resume meetings on January 21, 2024.  Our first two meetings will be open sessions. Any topic welcomed. On our third session (4th February) begins a five-week series on The Psychology of a Healthy Mind.

  • Sat
    03
    Feb
    2024
    4:00 pmOnline

    THE PSYCHOLOGY OF A HEALTHY MIND
    Selfishness & its Transformations in Self-Knowledge

    With our third meeting in 2024 (4th February) we’ll begin a nine-week series on The Psychology of a Healthy Mind. In this course, I want to convey the value of Buddhist psychology to human flourishing, and to do that in very practical terms. For this course, we'll focus on the Buddha's vision of transformation as presented in the Nikayas.

    My contention is that, if we have a regular meditation practice and if we are already both awakening and growing in the light of the Buddhadharma, then we are already - in our own way - doing something of what the formal Buddhist psychologies are designed for. The question then is what can we apply from the Buddhist understanding which will have us practising more skilfully, joyfully, and effectively?

  • Sun
    11
    Feb
    2024
    4:00 pmOnline

    We'll understand the meaning of the word 'Abhidharma' and the purpose of the special teachings of the early schools, and the historical development of this branch of Buddhist learning. The purpose of this exploration is to understand ourselves - as we are in our human situation.

  • Sun
    14
    Apr
    2024
    4:00 pmZoom

    The topic for this week will be: "The Nature of Saying and Thinking, from a Spiritual Practice Point of View."

  • Mon
    15
    Apr
    2024
    7:00 pm

    The topic for the evening is: "Depersonalization and the Buddhist Teachings." We'll use Majjhima Nikaya 22 as a background; where the Buddha compares his teaching to a snake, because - like a snake - the teaching needs skillful handling, or it'll bite you. How can we understand the Buddhadharma's concept of 'not-self,' such that we avoid emotional by-passing and depersonalisation.

  • Sun
    21
    Apr
    2024
    4:00 pmZoom

    In this conversation we'll explore the feeling of being oneself. Why is this important? I contend that, at least in the modern world, all wars are a result of mistaken notions of identity, and the 'othering' which follows from this confusion.

    What kind of process of experiencing gives us the feel of 'personal identity'? What's it based in? What is its reach and range? What function does it have for us? What's the relationship between 'identity' and 'self'? Is there an ultimate 'identity' of any sort? Why such a strong attachment to our 'identity'?